I will be spending this week talking about what it means to be a “member” or better said a “partner” of Lighthouse Assembly.
To become a member/partner at Lighthouse you must complete Class 101 Discovering Church Membership as well as agree to and sign the Membership Agreement.
The Membership Agreement spells out what it means to partner with us and it is broken down into 4 parts and we will be dealing with those parts this week.
1. I will protect the UNITY of my church
- By acting in love toward others
- By refusing to gossip
- By following the leadership
So let’s define to important terms
Protect is “to defend or guard from attack, invasion, loss, annoyance, or insult; to cover or shield from injury or danger”
Unity is “oneness, a state of being one; being united; oneness of mind; harmony; agreement”
So this first point of the partnership agreement is to PROTECT (defend or guard against attack to shield or cover from injury) the UNITY (the harmony, the oneness of mind) of our church by:
-Acting in love toward others
- this is a central part of our vision “love each other”
- this tells the world we really are Christ disciples
- this creates an environment that people want to be a part of
- this means we “love our neighbor as ourselves”
- this means we treat everyone the way we want to be treated
-Refusing to Gossip
- gossip is “idle talk or rumors about the personal or private affairs of others”
- ACT IN LOVE TOWARD OTHERS, you don’t want people bad mouthing you, don’t do it to them
- we all have junk in our lives, if you are really concerned for someone take them aside and SPEAK TO THEM DIRECTLY!!!
- if someone comes to you with a concern about someone else, ask them “have you discussed this with the person you are talking about?” If the answer is NO, DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM!!!
- If we refuse to listen to gossip, gossip will stop, gossip is like a flame and listening ears are like fuel for that fire. Smokey the Bears says “Only you can prevent forest fires” Pastor Clif says, “Only you can prevent the destructive fires of gossip”
- Don’t start gossip, to listen to gossip, don’t spread gossip
- GOSSIP KILLS UNITY
- When you gossip you become Satan’s hand extended instead of God’s
-Following the Leadership
- Get behind the mission of the church, “To lead people to become fully formed followers of Jesus Christ who passionately Love God, Love Others, & Love The World”
- Trust that the leadership is prayerfully following Jesus’ leadership and direction
- By becoming a member/partner you have said “I agree with Lighthouse, it Leadership, & its’ vision;” if you can’t say that you should not be a member/partner
- WE are all rowing the boat in the same direction, we can have discussions about the best way to get from point A to point B, but we are UNITED on WHERE WE ARE GOING, and if you don’t want to go THERE then change ships don’t try to bring this one down.
***I know some of that sounds hars but please note this dose not mean we are the BORG and as a collective their is room for disagreement or discussion. What it does mean is we are UNITED around a singular VISION for Lighthouse and we follow the leadership as they follow Christ as they try to bring it about the fulfillment of that vision.
As a member/partner you agree to Protect the UNITY of Lighthouse. We have a lot of people to reach for Jesus Christ.
I have found it is hard to rock the boat when you are helping to row it.
Protect the unity!